To J. D. Hooker 22 October [1872]
Sevenoaks
Oct 22d
My dear Hooker
This note will reach you on your return from your melancholy journey.— I lost my mother during infancy & therefore know not what the loss is, but I can well believe, that with the exception of ones wife, it is the greatest that a man can suffer;—though God knows the loss of a child is bitter enough & overwhelming.—1
You have sometimes spoken to me as if you felt growing old: I have never seen any signs of this, & I am certain that in the affections, which form incomparably the noblest part of a man’s nature, you are one of the youngest men that I know.— My wife sends her affectionate regards to you.— With respect to the Horse, my wife, I believe, erred in saying that his feet are tender, but he stumbles very badly, & as far as my experience goes a horse stumbles as much on the road or more, when walking as in trotting. So he would not suit: we thought that you wanted him for turf alone, & then he wd. have suited very well.—2 We return home next Saturday, & that will complete my 3 weeks of rest.3 I have been as dull as anyone could desire, & I daresay it will do me some good.—
On your return home you will be compelled to work hard, & that will be your best cure.—
Believe me | yours ever affectionately | Ch. Darwin
I fear Huxley keeps very poorly.—4
Footnotes
Bibliography
Correspondence: The correspondence of Charles Darwin. Edited by Frederick Burkhardt et al. 29 vols to date. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press. 1985–.
Desmond, Adrian. 1994–7. Huxley. 2 vols. London: Michael Joseph.
Summary
Condolences on death of JDH’s mother.
Letter details
- Letter no.
- DCP-LETT-8569
- From
- Charles Robert Darwin
- To
- Joseph Dalton Hooker
- Sent from
- Sevenoaks
- Source of text
- DAR 94: 231–2
- Physical description
- ALS 4pp
Please cite as
Darwin Correspondence Project, “Letter no. 8569,” accessed on 28 November 2024, https://www.darwinproject.ac.uk/letter/?docId=letters/DCP-LETT-8569.xml
Also published in The Correspondence of Charles Darwin, vol. 20